The Vampire Diaries Debate About Elena and Damon's Relationship
Buzz Battle: Should Vampire Diaries's Elena and Damon Date?
It's been awhile since we've had a good Buzz Battle, but there just hasn't been anything particularly squabble worthy for the Buzz editors to dissect. That is, until now. Over the weekend we stumbled up on this photo of Elena and Damon of The Vampire Diaries looking awfully cozy in an upcoming episode. The sexual tension has been mounting for weeks now, but will the writers go for broke and finally solidify this brotherly love triangle? Let's go over the facts. Editor B will argue the pro side, Editor S the con. And away, we go!

- Editor B: Elena and Stefan make a cute pair, but Elena and Damon really sizzle. Damon gets under her skin and brings out her firecracker side. Plus, Damon can keep her on her toes — and that's what makes for great television. We may always root for Elena to end up with the nice guy, but she and Damon have way hotter chemistry, which will give the show a big boost.
- Editor S Counterpoint: It's way too soon! The show is only in its first season, so it would be TV shark-jumping suicide if the writers let Damon and Elena get together now. Maybe in two, three seasons from now they can consummate that tension, but for now, they need to keep building up this foundation.
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- Editor B: The drama on The Vampire Diaries has moved at a solid pace thus far, but we've yet to see Stefan really shaken to his core. So far the vampire with the heart of gold has done his fair share of ass-kicking when necessary, but we've yet to see what he's really capable of. I just know that under all those abs beats the heart of a bad boy — don't you want to see Stefan change it up a little?
- Editor S Counterpoint: I'd love to see Stefan go all Angel on us, but you know it would never last. Once he goes back to being all nice-nice vampire Stefan, he'd just mope without his beloved Elena. And moping is pretty boring.
- Editor B: Damon needs a girlfriend, stat. Sure it's fun to watch him dance around with sorority randos, but we've yet to see him meet his relationship match. Plus, once he starts dating Elena, it'll be perfect time for Katherine to finally make her return after all these years in hiding, which will lead to a whole new dimension of drama.
- Editor S Counterpoint: I can't deny that I want to see Katherine (especially Nina Dobrev in an Eddie Murphy-like dual role, battling herself), but let's not kid ourselves: Damon and Elena would never last. They'd flame out fast, so it might as well come toward the end of the series, not now.
Time to pick a side: who's the winner of this Buzz battle? And what important points did we miss?
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Post a CommentI am all for Damon/elena together becouse I find strfan/elena relationship boring but between elena/damon you can feel amazing chemistry
All for Damon and Elena. But step by step
nooo damon shud date me hahaha
Damon & Elena for sure! Their chemistry is way stronger.
stefan and elena are pretty boring! i'd definitely like to see her w/ damon...eventually. no need to rush everything into the first season!
First of all, I think that picture makes it look like they are having a heated debate and not a heated moment.
Secondly, I don't think they should get together at least not for a few episodes. Elena's feelings for Damon are nor very loving right now (the whole he turned her mom thing) but maybe the entrance of Katherine and her toying with Damon may give you the chemistry you need without Elena supplying it.
Oops, I meant a few SEASONS and not a few episodes.
Ugh, I would love an edit button on these posts.
Why are girls always rooting for the bad boy? I am sorry but I stand with (and Love) Stefan.
To answer the question should Damon and Elena date I say no! They should have sex then Stefan will finally let his true rage come through and Damon deserves a bit of ass whooping from his sibling!
Damon and Elena all the way!!!
I'm fine with waiting a little bit for them to finally get together but they have the makings of an epic pairing. I totally disagree that they would "fizzle" out too - for once I want to see the passionate, intense and all-consuming love win out in the end! Damon/Elena have the beginnings of that completely!
Stefan and Elena have such a puppy dog romance - he's like a safetynet to her.
The important point missed by the giant pink elephant in the room: Damon and Stefan are brothers!!!!! You don't get a do-over with that situation. Both Damon and Elena would come across as the vile beings on the planet for going down that road. Editor S wins my vote.
go TEAM DAMON AMD ELENA.
THEY SHOULD SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GET TOGETHER
IT WOULD THE BEST THING EVER
BUT NOT THIS SEASON
DAMON SHOULD BE MINE.
HES SO SEXY
WHO AGRESS
I don't know, after what this week's episode has in store I think we may all see Stefan's "angel" side come out. I'm all for Elena and Damon to have a fling but that's it. I truly want her to be with Stefan. I agree it would be totally cool to see Nina take on 2 roles and fight as Elena and Katherine.
D/E must be endgame because I believe that Damon's able to change to a certain degree. He doesn't have to be all nice and careful like Stefan because that would ruin his personality that we all love. But it's gonna be a long way for DE to get together as a couple, to have true feelings for each other. Still, if it finally happens it's gonna carry all before one! Consequently, it's definitely worth to wait.
Damon/Elena ALL THE WAY!
like everyone else i just can't get enough of this show. love it love it so much it inspired a song check it out it could give you the taste the tune freeme its on utube put in thelurcherbrindle and you will find the darkside of emotion.
I am 100% behind Damon and Elena happening. But not yet. They are all about the build up. I don't mind SE but to really get behind a pair I need to see them grow together, I need to see the feelings develop. I need to see them face obstacles.
I never really saw any of this with SE. DE has it all to come. They have so many issues to address before they can really go there, and I'm sure they will. So for the rest of this season, I just want them to have more scenes where their killer chemistry can be shown to everyone. I want them to grow closer and I want their feelings to begin to flourish. I don't want them to date...yet.
I love Damon and Elena's on screen chemistry significantly more than that of Stefan and Elena.
Stefan and Elena bore me to tears. I think Stefan has the potential to be an interesting character, but he's too smothering, broody, and protective around Elena. I don't know, I think these two characters, bring each other down a bit in terms of individual strengths.
That said, I'm quite alright to wait a long time for any official Damon and Elena relationship. There's a lot going on in other parts of the story, and I'm enjoying them as they are now with the tension and the emotions flaring off all over the place.
For now, I think I'll be content that these two just show off their potential and get more scenes together rather than simply just hooking up!
Geesh, D/E chemistry is amazing! But Damon's kinda prone to killing people, so he needs to EARN it. I agree. Don't get them together this season (unless it's a drunken/substance-related one-night stand where they get furious with each other in the morning). Damon needs another season at least to be developed and shaped into someone that actually deserves her; getting them together this season sends a bad message to teen girls. But yeah, Stefan and Elena are a total snoozer. Stefan's not flawed enough. Perfect bf's are boring, and the s/e chemistry is minimal. And Damon needs a genuine lay, in my opinion. However, nerdy side note: Damon is neither a clinical sociopath or psychopath. He would have been exhibiting killing patterns by his teenage years, so I get a bit annoyed when he's referred to as such.
Damon & Elena all the way
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Like you said, I want to see Stefan change it up.
That would be super great, and amazing tv.
COME ON, KILL SOME PEOPLE STEFAN!
And I still think it's rather soon to get Elena and
Damon together. Honestly can't wait for Katherine's
return. I like her character.
She's badass.
Personally, I'm more of a Stefan/Elena fan, since Damon and Elena would go out too fast, and the only way I can picture them (Damon and Elena) together is if they had a drunken one-night stand.
i absolutely love the chemistry between damon and elena and find their scenes together to be the most compelling (heh)... they really draw me in and i can't help but want them to be together
but i agree that the sexual tension and build up are usually the best parts of these types of relationships... once they get together the spark can die. so i would hold off on them hooking up for a while..
and yes. can never get enough of sexy damon.
I would love to see a Katherine/Elena fight. I really want Damon to actually physically have to choose between them.
Although I love Damon/Elena, they are my favourite pairing of all time, I want it to be a while (mid season two at the earliest) before they get together. By this point it will be believable for Elena to have got over Stefan and to have built a decent relationship with Damon.
That picture... Ohhhhh I LOVE IT.
I love Damon/Elena.. and i want them to end the series together, but i don't want them together anytime soon... I want the tension to keep growing, I want Damon to fight for her, I want Elena to fight against falling for him. I want them to be tragic, and have a slow-burn.
And well.. i don't really care about Stefan or Stefan/Elena together.
Yes! Please Damon and Elena all the way... I want to see more of the softer side of Damon and i don't like Stefan so much.
Team Damon all the way
i think elena and damon [who i love] should get together in the end but right now damon has trusted issues and needs time to see if he can truly trusted her so elena should stay with stefan because right now he treats elena better than damon can and i cant wait to see nina [elena] fight herself all half bad half good going on lol:]!!!
Damon and Elena should be together! and i totally dont agree with what editor S said about their flame burning out fast. no, DE are forever. SE's burn looks like its burnin it pretty fast to me lolllllll!
Nice guys always finish last... -_-;; I am rooting for Stefan and Elena to ultimately end up together, but I wouldnt mind for some Elena and Damon romance.
I love Damon and Elena together! But I don't want them together as a couple till the show eventually finishes. I like their build up and how Elena is going to live in denial over her feelings for Damon. Remember that Stefan and Elena are supposed to be the main couple of the show so don't expect Elena to pick Damon, not until the very end if she does (hopefully she will).
I agree with what everyone has said. Stefan and Elena are boring! They got together too quickly and they can't be developed because they have done everything; I like them at first but when I saw Damon and Elena together, I realised how much hot chemistry Delena have together and that Stelena has zero. Sorry to people who like them -- they don't have any! I also think they are too "perfect". Delena is more real to me.
I also don't buy all this soulmates talk. I like to watch a couple develop their feelings for each other and not just say 'omg your my soulmate' which it felt with Stelena. I also believe you can have more than one soulmate in your life anyway.
And don't get my started on Bamon -- no chemistry, definately not as much as Delena, and I'm struggling to figure out which couple out of Stelena and Bamon is worse.
DAMON&ELENA FTMFWW!!!!
with awesome build-up!
All the way!! But yes, step by step
Damon and Elena (and Editor B) ftmfw!
DE have it all. They have the perfect amount of sweet moments laced with an intense underlying passion in every scene that just makes me drool. I'm prepared to wait for an actual relationship because the build up is the most important thing for them right now but eventually, they have to get together and they just HAVE to be endgame. I really love that we are getting a nice slow progression while their feelings develop under the surface. And please, the chemistry between these two actors is crazy-hot. I can't wait for this episode and for the tension to keep intensifying as they go.
And just a comment to Editor S: Stefan would mope whether he was with Elena or not! And I also disagree that Damon/Elena would 'flame out' because they are about SOOO much more than just some random hook up! This is real love in the making!
I think they should not put Damon and Elena together. Where would the show go from there? Besides, the whole broody, I can't ever really be happy thing has been done to death. I think they should figure out a way for Stefan and Elena to be happy not go with the easy tension grabber.
Damon and Elena FTW!!
They got so much chemistery together
i know they are almost...
I go for Editor B..... I would love to see a little Damon/Elena action. Maybe not this season, but definitely Season 2. It should develope slowly. It would be great watching them give into each other and then back off, then give in, then back off. Season 2 should be Elena falling in love with both brothers. Stephan is a great guy, but Damon would be forever. He has already proved that....
Damon and Elena are way more exciting than Stefan/Elena and they aren't even together on the show. I dislike who elena becomes around stefan; this damsel in distress who can't take care of herself. Meanwhile, Damon puts this spark in her and tends to be her equal instead of a knight in shining armour. She's slapped him twice and they've saved each other but with Stefan, it seems like Elena puts him on a pedastool, and I can't stand relationships like that.
Delena all the way!
No, maybe i am blind I still dont see anything bout Damon and Elena not even chemistry or anything good bout them together. I like damon okay, please dont get wrong on this..but with elena.
Never! No matter what will happen, Stafan and Elena are soulmates! And their chemistry has another level, then between Damon and Elena! They have mental chemistry! And no one will ruin it!
The story is about Stefan & Elena's love right now (and hopefully it will last), so I can't see a Damon/Elena romance happening soon. Plus they don't match together at all for a long-lasting relationship.
Editor S is absolutely right : if Damon/Elena ever happens, that would be the death of the show. Because it implies that Damon would loose what makes the essence of his character (and which obviously collides with any fulfilling couple relationship) and would definitely ruin the triangle dynamic the writers want to maintain for the long haul.
Furthermore, such an ending for the series would be a lousy closure to the epic Stefan/Elena love story.
In the end, everyone would get disappointed.
Damon and Elena ftw, but it definitely would have to be a slower build (not like the abruptness of S/E's relationship). They'd need to meet each other halfway; Damon a little more compassionate, Elena a little more to the dark side. It could be done, and (with their amazing chemistry) it could be done well.
Damon/Elena. They'd make a great couple. Sure, Stefan is a nice guy, but I doubt that a girl like Elena won't get bored after a while.
Stefan would go to the ends of the Earth to protect and love Elena. His love for her knows no bounds and I think that's one of the reasons I love their relationship. I love Damon and Elena as much as the next girl (books AND show), but when I think of them I don't think forever. The bad boys might be the ones you think are interesting and date for a while, but it's the good guy you take home at the end of the day. I don't think Stefan is eternally mopey. He's cautious about the actions he takes and actually treads a moral line, a good balance to his brother who doesn't care about who he hurts and has the traits of a sociopath. Stefan and Damon are ying and yang and in my opinion a much more interesting relationship that needs to be further explored than the debate over Stefan/Elena/Damon.
damon and elena 4ever . I love them. stefan is to boring. but I think tha the relationship have to grown step by step
I totally want to see Damon/Elena endgame, but I want to see more build up/tension first.
Having them get together in the first season would kind of ruin the couple for me to be brutally honest, it wouldn't be Damon's style to jump the gun like that.
Like he told Stefan in "Friday Night Bites", 'I could just seduce her the old fashioned way'. Damon was originally from an age when courtship was the norm. Long lasting relationships started out as close friendships with occasional private times away from the prying eyes of the parental guardian/chaperone.
Sex doesn't justify a relationship either. Just because two people have sex, it doesn't make them right for each other. In the modern day sense, it seems that sex is more of a tool to fulfill your primal instinct to mate/feel good about yourself/what have you. To truly understand one another, two people have to form a friendship based on trust and understanding that could end up becoming a romantic relationship as should be the case with Damon and Elena. Sex is the very tip of the iceberg in terms of reaching full fledged self respecting relationship status. As the Frank Sinatra song says "Love and marriage...go together like a horse and carriage", we all know that having sex for no reason but you say that you are attracted to them is a cause for destruction. Sex doesn't always make a relationship better. In quite a few cases, it makes the relationship worse than it was because there are emotional strings tied up in giving a little bit of yourself to someone that doesn't necessarily love you like you love them. That's why I don't like the use of the term break up sex, I mean, why would you have sex with someone after you break up with them because it would make you feel better? In a twisted person's mind that might be all fine and good, I don't share that view though. It hurts less if you tear the band-aid off right away and toss it before you reuse it. The chance that you might still maintain a friendship with a person you had former sexual relations with is better if you refrain from break up sex.
All in all, I would hope they maintain the tension between Damon/Elena, it is good to remain steady and not go full speed ahead in a relationship. It will give eventually, but we need the slow burn first.
I totally agree with crazyjen, Brucas, Kary1591, foxyfreds, Liliannn, redchick152 and most of the Anonymous comments . All these people definitely understand. My mom is 100% Stefan/Elena and it's boring. It happened so quickly, but Damon and Elena's feelings for each other begin with denial and all that stuff and that makes it 10 times more interesting. Plus, they have killer chemistry. No, I don't believe that they would "flame out" because - like one of the comments here said - Damon/Elena are more than just some random hook-up. Of course they have to go step-by-step. They have to take it slowly so the chemistry can build up.
Yeah Stefan and Elena are really boring, Stefan is boring and I dont like nice vampires
Team Elena/Damon !
If the TV show keeps true to the books Elena will most certainly end up with Stephen in the end. I've never been attracted to or a fan of bad boys, but having said that, I love Elena and Damon together. I think this has to do with the incredible chemistry that the actors who play the parts, Nina and Ian, have together. Nina and Paul Wesley are cute together, but they don't seem to have the same onscreen chemistry that Nina and Ian do.
Ya I know its just a show and all but I do not wanna Elena go from one brother to the other. For me I hope that Damon and Stefan can repair the damage in their relationship and if Elena goes from dating Stefan to dating Damon I just don't see that happening. And that relationship to me is the most important. I want Damon to find his own girlfriend, but of course that would make this a non love triangle and boring television(sigh)
The relationships that take a long time to build are the ones that last the longest and are the most passionate. Elena and Damon are still building that relationship and once established, it will be solid and eternal.
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